On Saturday night, in a lull, I could stand in my trench behind the bar, Because there are three forms of loneliness:
- arrogant Solitude: There in the bottom of the den, was this person from his chair, looked at the other over his shoulder. Clothing and hair strategically, with the highest ego that the individual himself, hoping perhaps someone admire or fall into his arms, something that rarely happens.
- desperate loneliness: Who has not ever happened? Be surrounded by friends, and these, in different cliques, talking about their issues and you stay out of play, without seeing the thread to which we must grasp to follow belonging to the group. When you see that is impossible, start looking at all sides. You pray to the sky in silence to bring someone you know who can throw acoplarte or knowing glances after one possible way to flirting. Also you can think of the useless idea of \u200b\u200bstarting a conversation with the bartender on duty without realizing that you are terribly busy. In the end, you have two options: you just get bored and going, with a consequent general mosqueo - do not go, if now we're all, take one more, but what's wrong?, Etc or, wait until someone will remember you and go to the console machine and turn a trivial or something similar to keep you distracted until repair some of your colleagues you.
- coward Solitude: Some people directly assume the role of victim: The world does not understand me, what have I done to deserve this?, Etc. These people, usually comes out alone. They drink alone and if by any chance are you or call you when the alcohol has completely dominated them, you get the sheet unhappy about what they are. You, on education, answer them and to offer them solutions. Solutions that they refuse to follow. Then, there are still lamenting his ill fortune and do not understand how the world treats them so bad. In the end, you also get drunk just to support best night you have left and both breakfast Terminais one carrying something or other about how bad ends.
Funny how you can learn even at certain hours of the night and also depending on sites, but strangely, this past Saturday I was calm enough to make a clarification on the issue, more so I am fond of anthropology, which I have pasted my sister and also reading a book I'm very curious of Ethology (study of behavior) in this human case, called the naked ape, a certain Desmond Morris and nothing, I wanted to share with you.
We are one of the most curious and think it would be a good section for innaugurar this and of course, who wants to contribute something about it, about how we are, you know you have to send an email to icarofinalfeliz@hotmail.com. I will be happy to include it in this blog.
Please keep going.
A hug.
